The fact is that when each of us were infants, we spent time discovering our bodies, including our toes, feet, fingers, and yes even our vagina or penis. As boys and girls reach puberty, their sex hormones become more active. Even though the feelings are hard to describe, they are normal feelings. They happen at different times and in different ways for both boys and girls.
May has cum, which means International Masturbation Month is here. Sex ed has failed us all. I had the pleasure of spending this month curating and writing posts covering all types of topics around masturbation. I must say, the number of people who approached me to ask what I was working on and then proceeded to quiz me was astounding.
Because you set the agenda and control the action by yourself, on your own terms, masturbation may be the best way to learn what turns you on. Most people raised as girls are set up to not enjoy sex in one way or another. They aren't told very much about their bodies in detail at least not about their genitals , they may be told that sex is something to be afraid of, something to resist. All of us are raised with at least some negative messages about our bodies and some shame about sex.